Today's Stoic Thought
“Talk, but rarely, if occasion calls you, but do not talk of ordinary things – of gladiators or horses races or athletes or of meats or drinks – these are topics that arise everywhere – but above all do not talk about men in blame or compliment or comparison.”Epictetus
In modern life, this Stoic teaching encourages thoughtful conversations that elevate our minds. Rather than discussing trivial matters like celebrity gossip, we can delve into topics that inspire growth and reflection together. By steering clear of gossip or judgmental discussions about others, we focus on ideas that cultivate wisdom and virtue. For example, instead of chatting about the latest scandals, we could engage in a meaningful dialogue about how to improve our community through volunteering or organizing events that benefit others.
Whoever guards his mouth preserves his life; he who opens wide his lips comes to ruin.
The verse emphasizes the importance of guarding one's speech and being mindful of the words we choose to speak. It reminds us that speaking wisely can lead to positive outcomes, while careless words can bring harm. This aligns with the Stoic teaching of engaging in meaningful conversations that contribute to personal growth and virtue, rather than indulging in trivial or harmful topics.
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