“It is essential to make oneself used to putting up with a little. Even the wealthy and the well provided are continually met and frustrated by difficult times and situations. It is in no man’s power to have whatever he wants; but he has it in his power not to wish for what he hasn’t got, and cheerfully make the most of the things that do come his way.”Seneca
In modern life, we often face unexpected challenges like a sudden job loss or a health issue that tests our resilience. By practicing acceptance and focusing on what we can control, we can navigate these difficulties with grace. For instance, when faced with a setback at work, instead of dwelling on what could have been, we can focus on honing our skills and finding a new opportunity.
with all humility and gentleness, with patience, bearing with one another in love,
Temperance is about accepting setbacks and challenges with grace, focusing on what we can control rather than dwelling on what we cannot. In Ephesians 4:2, the call to be humble, gentle, and patient aligns with the Stoic idea of making the most of what comes our way and not wishing for what we do not have. By practicing contentment and resilience in the face of difficulties, we can cultivate a spirit of self-control and inner peace.