“What people say or think about him, or how they treat him, isn’t something he worries about.”Marcus Aurelius
In our modern world of social media, it's easy to get caught up in seeking approval and validation from others. Instead, focusing on our own actions and behaviors can bring true fulfillment. For example, if a coworker makes a negative comment about your work, staying focused on improving your skills rather than seeking their approval can lead to personal growth and resilience.
For am I now seeking the approval of man, or of God? Or am I trying to please man? If I were still trying to please man, I would not be a servant of Christ.
Courage is exemplified when one remains focused on their actions and values regardless of external opinions or treatments. Drawing strength from one's inner convictions, like focusing on personal growth rather than seeking validation from others, demonstrates the courage to hold true to one's principles. Just as the Bible urges not to seek human approval but to stand firm in faith, Stoicism encourages an unwavering commitment to virtue and moral excellence.